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My son, pay attention to your choices.

Dear son, me and your father, with all the affection and attention that we can, we have tried to help you in your choices, but this mission of ours has not been easy at all.
We love you and we know that you love us. We recognize in you a good boy, attentive to giving us affection as well as your grandparents and sister (in your own way, but with her too). We know that you strive to give us the best as a child, and you know how hard this is for you too.
I see your education with our friends, your good relationship with everyone, your commitment to accompany us on our religious journey in search of more knowledge and closeness to God.
We have also seen your effort to earn your own money to be able to fulfill your consumption desires. And we are proud to have seen your commitment to work during all these months. Now, enjoy your time well. Use it for interesting and different things. And remember that you now have a new goal: exercise to maintain good health. And this is soooo important.
There are also, my son, several things going on in your head: the desire for independence, going out alone, going to a party, being alone in the room. And we know that you are growing up and need new adventures. But understand that we, as parents, know the world a little more than you do, and we need to say No to certain things. There is time for everything. There is time to plant and time to harvest. You can't reverse or change orders. Then learn to accept some Noes by understanding our position as parents. We need to watch over your youth.
And we need to define your future in terms of university and exchange. We need to sit down together and take the time to define all this, as there is little time left. Yours is your great wish, and, even though our heart already hurts to think about missing you, we want you to be able to do what you have to study in the area you want. Therefore, '' For this ", we are open to negotiation.
I know you really want to go to this party this Saturday, and I understand your desire as much as it is my desire to have you with us. Make your decision! We will accept it. And we pray and ask God to keep it. But know that giving up having you with us is painful. Tudo Passa ... soon you will be distant, making your college so desired, and I think that is why we still want you so close to us.
A big kiss on your heart! We love you forever.

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